So I randomly... sometimes.... I go onto Jake's facebook account to check any haps in our family and friend's lives. I just happened to read a post from Jake's friend from high school. It basically said, "Pray for this sweet family as they have lost their mom." It went on to say that you could read a post on their family blog from her husband, so naturally I was interested and went to the link. I can't tell you how this has affected my life. I read the post last Thursday and I would encourage anyone and all to go their blog and read it. It is www.dennyandwendy.blogspot.com.
Trust me, the tears will flow. I think for me, I realize that even though I am young and healthy(for the most part), any of us, at any moment, could be taken. I am sure Wendy was an exceptional person for her to be taken from her sweet little family. I just have to say, that I have held my little ones and my husband a little closer lately. Obviously yesterday was Mother's Day, and I think of her little children yearning to be with her and to give her their precious homemade cards and gifts. I have cried many times thinking about them. I sobbed last night in bed at 12:30 am. Yes, I am a boob, but this has touched me so deeply. She was exactly my age, graduated with Jake from Af, had 3 little children and were about to really start their lives.
I just have to say that I am so grateful for this time in my life. I adore my husband and I cherish my little boys. When I hear of things like this, I just have to think...... time is short, we shouldn't waste it on being mean..... jealous......hurtful......passing judgement......sarcastic.......prideful.......and unforgiving. Too Short. I have recently started to pray for opportunities to be kind to someone in need. To reach out to someone that may need a friend. Don't we all need that??? I know that I do. I have many wonderful friends and family that are always so good to me. I hope that I can show you all that I simply appreciate and adore every single one of you. Again, please take time to read the post from Wendy's husband. It's amazing. Here's to holding our loved ones a little tighter and to always striving to be kind to each other.
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It absolutely puts everything into perspective.
I have and will hold those I love closer for sure.
Oh my...you weren't kidding. Now I feel nothing but guilt for my attitude today.
Such good advice! I hate to hear of stories like that :( I will have to look at that site.
Emily, I read this, and it broke my heart. I don't know if you know Marnie Jones in the 8th ward, but Wendy is her cousin. I cannot imagine what that family is going through. you are right, though, you never know what will happen in life, so we should be happy and enjoy every moment! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for that Emily! Good to be reminded of some things, you know?
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